• Self-Love,  Uncategorized,  Well-being

    6 Ways To Feed Your Soul

    Have you ever felt so tired even though you just woke up? Sometimes you feel unproductive even though you have crossed out everything in your to-do list. Before you go to sleep, you feel something that you should have done during the day but could not quite think of what it was exactly that you wanted done. The problem maybe not what you have been doing, but what you have been neglecting. Maybe you have been starving your soul. And you might not even know it.  So how do you feed your soul? Here are 5 suggested ways to feeding your soul. 1.       Stop being too busy. If you can’t, at…

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    How to Have A Perfect Day

      It is a fact that for every new day that comes , we are automatically on reset, everything is brand new. And by everything, it means even God’s mercy and blessings. It is renewed daily as sure as the sun does shine, and so are His miracles. Everything is fresh. Fresh perspective, fresh start, new opportunities to seize and new life to live, new challenges, new chance for personal growth. Each new day would allow you to correct any mistake you made the day before or from any day in the past. Isn’t it wonderful that we get that opportunity to have something fresh every single day? My, we…

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    The Ultimate Guide to Setting and Achieving Your Goals

      Introduction   “You need a plan to build a house. To build a life, it is even more important to have a plan or goal.” – Zig Ziglar It is the last quarter of 2016 and in a couple months, we will be welcoming a brand new year! Speaking of New Years, how was your goals for 2016? Did you achieve all of them? Were there things that you were not able to work on? What areas of your life can you say was left behind when it comes to creating the change you wanted for last year? Now, it is the time to set and start new goals.…

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    The Real Reason Why Your Dreams Die & What You Can Do To Avoid Them

    Have you ever wondered why, after making positive changes in specific areas of your life, that no matter how diligently you tried to follow up on it, you always end up back to where you started. It seems like there’s something trying to stop you or pull you away from achieving what it is that you really want in life. I used to feel that way. Many times I’ve always find myself running around in circles trying to find out the very thing that would help me break the cycle, looking for the thing that would lead me to my breakthrough. All the while I thought that if the pull…

  • Dating and Relationship Resources,  Finding Love,  Uncategorized

    The One That Got Away: 5 Tips On What To Do If Your “TOTGA” Reappears in Your Life

    Do you have someone whom you consider as the one that got away? If you reconnect, should you give it another chance considering both of you are single, either by choice or by circumstance?     If you’re like 40ish like me, I bet you have someone you call your Totga, except if you are NBSB (no boyfriend since birth). Sometimes we can’t but help think of that one person whom we think is our TOTGA or the one that got away. Haha, I am a sucker for all these “millenial” terminology.     The term “the one that got away” has been on my mind for quite sometime when…

  • Finding Love,  Personal Story,  Self-Love,  Uncategorized

    Love and Free Will

    This is one of those times that I need to write down what I feel. I know I am a good writer, if only I could write a damn good love story for myself, wouldn’t that be awesome! But no matter how good a writer we are, there is somebody else who has our best interest at heart. God. He is the master story maker. You might ask, if God is the master story maker of our life, then why does He allow us to make mistakes in choosing the right partner for ourselves? Why doesn’t He impose the person that is meant for us? That would have saved us…

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    How to Have An Irresistible Self-confidence

    If you have been following my blog, you would at least know a little about me and my misadventures in the relationship area. I have been single for the past 3 years, and it was quite a journey and it was challenging transitioning from being a full-time mom and partner to my common-law husband to being a single mom. Although it’s been quite a while that I have decided to go back into the dating scene,  I still have one big problem. I do not have the confidence to go out there and meet some men who might be the one for me. I am a single mom to 4…

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    A Time to List : A New Year’s Post

    It’s that time again for making new goals, resolutions, intentions or whatever you call it. I am not in the habit of making one for the sake of sticking to some sort of a plan, but I make it for the sake of making one, because it’s New Year’s.  And because I have this notion that resolutions are made to be broken. Or am I the only one who really had a hard time following through. pixabay.com A quick throwback to a year ago, I blogged about my essentials for 2014. And…well, what’d you know, I was able to fulfill at least about half of that. I was able to…

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    The Non-Negotiables In a Relationship

    A couple of months ago, I posted something about the list , which supposedly was a list of the qualities I am looking for in a man. I admit, it was quite superficial. Okay, it was very superficial, that’s why I also said that the list was flexible. Of course, you can’t really expect to find all those qualities in a man. Or else, someone up there really favors you. With that, as I reviewed what I have posted there, I am embarrassed to have written such post, looking only for the physical qualities and special talents of what would make a good husband or partner for me. I realized,…

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    15 Things I Learned from Francis Kong

    I always believe that the quest for knowledge is timeless.  There should be no expiration date, no age limit to learning. And that is why I always make it a point to invest in something that I would learn. So you just can’t imagine how happy I was when one of the best motivation and inspirational speakers of our country in this time announced that he would be giving his yearly free talks. When the link for the registration came up, I think I was one of the very first people who were able to register instantly. Because after 10 minutes, I wanted to register my sister so I have…