• Self-Love,  Uncategorized,  Well-being

    6 Ways To Feed Your Soul

    Have you ever felt so tired even though you just woke up? Sometimes you feel unproductive even though you have crossed out everything in your to-do list. Before you go to sleep, you feel something that you should have done during the day but could not quite think of what it was exactly that you wanted done. The problem maybe not what you have been doing, but what you have been neglecting. Maybe you have been starving your soul. And you might not even know it.  So how do you feed your soul? Here are 5 suggested ways to feeding your soul. 1.       Stop being too busy. If you can’t, at…

  • Personal Story,  Uncategorized

    Say Hello to the New Me and My New Vanity URL

    Just when I thought I’ve outgrown blogging…Welcome to my new blog! I have been blogging for quite sometime in this blog, but with a different blog title, talked or rather wrote about my experiences, transitioning from being a loving partner,  to becoming an empowered single mom, and all the challenges I encountered throughout that journey. I had always been a melancholic writer, I can only write something that springs from being sad and lonely.  It is a bigger challenge for me to write something that would come from my being happy. I drew strength and inspiration to write from sadness.  I thought that I would be like that for a long time, until…

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    The Non-Negotiables In a Relationship

    A couple of months ago, I posted something about the list , which supposedly was a list of the qualities I am looking for in a man. I admit, it was quite superficial. Okay, it was very superficial, that’s why I also said that the list was flexible. Of course, you can’t really expect to find all those qualities in a man. Or else, someone up there really favors you. With that, as I reviewed what I have posted there, I am embarrassed to have written such post, looking only for the physical qualities and special talents of what would make a good husband or partner for me. I realized,…

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    Pushed to the Limit

    What would you do when finally the dream that you have for so long in your heart come true? Would you not spend all of your resources and efforts in sharing your happiness with the people whom you shared your life with through laughter and tears? People have different ways of expressing their happiness and gratitude. Some would splurge on the people they love. Thus is the case of my friend, colleague and boss (TF Events and Resources). For almost 20 years, she and her husband have been wanting to have a child. They spent  much of their resources in trying to find ways of having a child, trying even…

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    The Point in Valentine

    February is the love month and now it’s Valentine’s Day!  There is a different kind of sweetness in the air. It’s romance everywhere. People tend to be more romantic, and more generous in February. It’s that time of the year when men don’t mind splurging on their “amore” and the women go crazy obsessing on which shoes would match her red strapless dress.  Everywhere I go, I see couples either snuggling close to each other, or dreamily looking into each other’s eyes like lovesick puppies. At every turn, I see hearts, hearts, and more hearts, as if it is the only shape that existed. I’m amazed at how men become the…

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    Decisions, Decisions

    It’s been 3 months since Haiyan changed our lives forever. My life made a 360 degree turn. What was once a laid-back lifestyle , one that have you home at 7 pm and just enjoy working at the comforts of your home, to a lifestyle that brings random out of town trips. Photo: beautifullymisunderstood.com Three months and I still haven’t made up my mind yet, whether to follow my children’s wishes and have my career take a backseat once more, or enjoy the adrenaline rush  and take the opportunity to make something out for the future. Leaving Tacloban wasn’t a choice, but more of a means for survival. Yet I…

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    The Diva Records

    I know , I know, my title is deceiving. It has nothing to do with me being a diva. Sure I can sing, but not in the likes of Beyonce or Mariah Carey. I have my own style. 🙂 There is a big event that me and the team are preparing for. It is the birthday of our company chairman’s daughter. It is a very special birthday because the couple had waited decades for the baby to come. It was an elusive dream for them since both of them may have something medically that keeps them from having children. And now that the baby is celebrating her first year, the…