• Dating and Relationship Resources,  Finding Love,  Uncategorized

    The One That Got Away: 5 Tips On What To Do If Your “TOTGA” Reappears in Your Life

    Do you have someone whom you consider as the one that got away? If you reconnect, should you give it another chance considering both of you are single, either by choice or by circumstance?     If you’re like 40ish like me, I bet you have someone you call your Totga, except if you are NBSB (no boyfriend since birth). Sometimes we can’t but help think of that one person whom we think is our TOTGA or the one that got away. Haha, I am a sucker for all these “millenial” terminology.     The term “the one that got away” has been on my mind for quite sometime when…

  • Finding Love,  Personal Story,  Self-Love,  Uncategorized

    The Beauty in Waiting ( How To Avoid Anxiety While Waiting)

    I have already written something about The Grace in Waiting in December 2014, and that was in relation to the Advent season, but the message was about waiting for the right love and person. Sooo, fast forward to 2017, yes, today, I am still waiting. But guess what, now,  I am waiting for a lot of things in my life. Not just for love and the right person, but also with regards to my career. I am waiting for an answer to a proposal that I sent to my client and a bigger one for my personal life. Yesterday, while I was waiting for my friend , I decided to…

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    Soul Mate: What I Learned From Deepak Chopra (Part 2)

    So I have written this blog post about soulmates called Soul Mate: What I Learned From Deepak Chopra which unfortunately there were questions there that were supposed to be answered by another blog of mine. That blog called A Day in the Life of Anne is now unpublished so I want to post down below what was originally written there.  Soul mate. The word is very familiar to all of us. This is what everybody wants to find, the ultimate fulfillment of our love life. But do we really know what a soulmate is? Before we find our soulmate, we need to know what it means in the truest sense…

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    Love and Free Will

    This is one of those times that I need to write down what I feel. I know I am a good writer, if only I could write a damn good love story for myself, wouldn’t that be awesome! But no matter how good a writer we are, there is somebody else who has our best interest at heart. God. He is the master story maker. You might ask, if God is the master story maker of our life, then why does He allow us to make mistakes in choosing the right partner for ourselves? Why doesn’t He impose the person that is meant for us? That would have saved us…

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    Second Chances: Is It Really Worth It?

    Have you or someone you know found themselves in a situation where they would do almost anything to get back with their ex? You’ll cry, you’ll beg, you’ll threaten, you’ll promise to change, but they keep walking. Ending a relationship and losing someone you love from your life can be one of the most frustrating and defining moments in your lifetime, and it’s hard to know what the right thing to do is when you are trying desperately to turn things around.   Yes, yes, I know this will cause a stir with my friends. They might think, after all he’s done, you still secretly wanted to give him another…

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    The List: Uncut

    Updated: Because this post was written almost 5 years ago, some of my preferences have changed. Maturity? Probably. The list still contains most of the things I want, but I have to add more which makes it more relevant to my age now. Disclaimer: Photo:readingcinemas.co.nz Although this is based on my real life experience, the man I am mentioning in this post is still a work of fiction, any resemblance to people is merely coincidental. 🙂 Sorry for the title, I know it’s misleading. I did it on purpose to attract curiosity. Yes, I am moving on to the next phase of my life. And that’s finding my happiness. Well,…

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    Soulmates According to Deepak

    I have already published this post in another blog that I own, but since it has very few readers, I decided to move some content here.   The word is very familiar to all of us. This is what everybody wants to find, the ultimate fulfillment of our lovelife. But do we really know what a soulmate is? Before we find our soulmate, we need to know what it means in the truest sense of the word. I am lucky to be able to stumble upon some material by one of the greatest thinkers of our time, Deepak Chopra. And listening and reading to it filled my cup of knowledge…

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    Light My Heart

    Miña La Luz.   Am I in love with you? Maybe.  Maybe not. I don’t know.   I have always been in love with the idea of love, but I am undecided whether I should fall in love right now. Because right now may not be the perfect time.  “Right now” is complicated. I wish it’s easy to uncomplicate things.   The things you do to me, they confuse me. And frighten me.   But at the same time lifts me up from the pit I am in. And puts me high up on a pedestal.   I am scared. Of opening my heart again to love. Because the road…