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    The One That Got Away: 5 Tips On What To Do If Your “TOTGA” Reappears in Your Life

    Do you have someone whom you consider as the one that got away? If you reconnect, should you give it another chance considering both of you are single, either by choice or by circumstance?     If you’re like 40ish like me, I bet you have someone you call your Totga, except if you are NBSB (no boyfriend since birth). Sometimes we can’t but help think of that one person whom we think is our TOTGA or the one that got away. Haha, I am a sucker for all these “millenial” terminology.     The term “the one that got away” has been on my mind for quite sometime when…

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    Second Chances: Is It Really Worth It?

    Have you or someone you know found themselves in a situation where they would do almost anything to get back with their ex? You’ll cry, you’ll beg, you’ll threaten, you’ll promise to change, but they keep walking. Ending a relationship and losing someone you love from your life can be one of the most frustrating and defining moments in your lifetime, and it’s hard to know what the right thing to do is when you are trying desperately to turn things around.   Yes, yes, I know this will cause a stir with my friends. They might think, after all he’s done, you still secretly wanted to give him another…

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    50 Shades Messed Up Understanding on Love

    Disclaimer: The post below contains my own views of the matter. I cannot and do not speak for all the women victims of violence. I only speak from my own experience. If you haven’t experienced any form of abuse: sexual, physical, psychological and emotional abuse, then you might not understand where I am coming from. Still, I expect your respect in as much as I give my utmost respect for people who do not share the same views with me.   I’ve been wanting to write my views about the popular 50 Shades of Grey series ever since I read the book, 2 or 3 years ago, but then I…

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    The List: Uncut

    Updated: Because this post was written almost 5 years ago, some of my preferences have changed. Maturity? Probably. The list still contains most of the things I want, but I have to add more which makes it more relevant to my age now. Disclaimer: Photo:readingcinemas.co.nz Although this is based on my real life experience, the man I am mentioning in this post is still a work of fiction, any resemblance to people is merely coincidental. 🙂 Sorry for the title, I know it’s misleading. I did it on purpose to attract curiosity. Yes, I am moving on to the next phase of my life. And that’s finding my happiness. Well,…

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    Soulmates According to Deepak

    I have already published this post in another blog that I own, but since it has very few readers, I decided to move some content here.   The word is very familiar to all of us. This is what everybody wants to find, the ultimate fulfillment of our lovelife. But do we really know what a soulmate is? Before we find our soulmate, we need to know what it means in the truest sense of the word. I am lucky to be able to stumble upon some material by one of the greatest thinkers of our time, Deepak Chopra. And listening and reading to it filled my cup of knowledge…