Hi, I’m M.A. Lim – Your Vision Designer.
Get ready for the good stuff!
I guide women who are leaving emotionally toxic relationships through the process of rebuilding — from clarity, to stability, to finally thriving on their own terms.
This space is for women who are tired of surviving…
but not ready to rush into the next thing.
You don’t need fixing.
You don’t need to have it all figured out.
You just need clarity, support, and space to breathe again.
The Path Forward
Healing doesn’t happen in one leap.
It happens in stages.
That’s why everything here follows a simple, grounded path.
Keep the Narc Away
Clarity. Awareness. Safety.
This is where you begin when you’re confused, drained, or questioning your reality.
You’ll learn to recognize toxic patterns, understand what you’ve been through, and begin trusting yourself again.
👉 Start here if you’re still trying to make sense of what happened.
The Mommy VA
Stability. Independence. Confidence.
Once clarity comes, the next step is rebuilding your life in a practical way.
Mommy VA helps you regain stability through real, sustainable online work.
This isn’t hustle culture.
It’s about regaining control, confidence, and independence.
👉 Start here if you’re ready to stand on your own feet again.
She Thrives Solo
Healing. Identity. Growth.
This is where you move beyond survival.
Where you reconnect with yourself, rebuild your sense of identity, and create a life that feels grounded and peaceful.
👉 Start here if you’re ready to grow, not just recover.
You’re Not Behind
You’re not weak.
You’re not broken.
You’re not late.
You’re rebuilding after something that required strength most people never see.
And you don’t have to do it alone.
Choose Your Path of Becoming
Work with Me
Whether you’re still untangling yourself from the storm or standing in the quiet after it, your next chapter is ready to be built — intentionally, gently, with support that honors your story.
PATH 1: HEAL- Emotional Reset & Toxi Relationship Recovery
For women ready to release the pain, reconnect with themselves, and begin the journey back home to who they are.
Programs:
Emotional Reset Program
Break the Trauma Bond Workbook
Journaling for Healing
Narc-Proof Your Mindset
PATH 2: DESIGN - Identity Reinvention & Purpose Creation
For women ready to rewrite their story and create a future that feels aligned, meaningful, and deeply theirs.
Programs:
Becoming By Design™
Ikigai Discovery Sessions
Future Self Blueprint
PATH 3: EARN - Income Independence & Skill Building
For women who want to break financial dependence and build a new life with digital skills and real earning power.
Programs:
Earn to Escape™ Academy
VA Starter Course
Email Marketing Basics
Automation 101
Template Bundles
Why I Do This Work
I’ve walked through the storm too.
I once believed leaving was the finish line, that escape would rebuild the life I lost in the shadows of someone else’s power.
But freedom is more than absence.
It is truth, healing, identity, skill, and vision.
I rebuilt myself from the inside out, not to be strong, but to be whole.
Today, I help women do the same.
Not as theory, but as a path I lived with my own hands.
This work is personal, sacred, and designed.
— M.A. Lim
Four pillars of becoming
Truth
Thrive Without the Narc
Education and content to help you see clearly and reclaim your identity.
Healing
She Thrives Solo
Reflections, tools, and practices for rebuilding life on your terms.
Skill
Earn to Escape
Financial empowerment through digital skills — creating options and safety.
Vision Design
Real Manifestations
Manifesting from truth — identity, clarity, and grounded spirituality.
Start Your Journey With These Free Tools
Red Flags & Narc Awareness Checklist
30-Day Healing Journal Starter
VA Quick Start Guide
Letters to the Brave
by M.A. Lim, Vision Designer™
Get weekly letters on identity, healing, power, and becoming delivered with truth and tenderness.
This is not inspiration. This is activation designed gently, delivered honestly, built for the woman becoming herself again.
VISION DESIGN MANIFESTO
“You are not defined by what happened to you, but by who you decide to become after.”
The woman you haven’t met yet is calling.
Your new life is not waiting for permission.
It’s waiting for a decision.
I can’t walk the path for you —
but I can hold the lantern.
— M.A. Lim
Vision Notes
Reflections on identity, becoming, and life by design.
You’re Not Lost, You’re Between Selves
There is a moment in every transformation that feels like disorientation. Not because something is wrong, but because something old has stopped working, and something new has not yet taken form. Most people call this being lost. It isn’t. It is being between selves....
Your Future Self Is Waiting, Let’s Go Meet Her.
Whether you’re healing, rebuilding, or rising into your next chapter,
you don’t have to walk this journey alone.
Your vision is calling you forward and I’m here to help you design the life, identity,
and income you deserve.